I️ might have just set myself up for an awkward weekend...how should I handle this situation !?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-22T14:05:01+00:00

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How should I interact with the girl I’m interested in all weekend?

Look, you should escalate a little, but within reason. Everyone there is going to know the score; that you're all headed back to the same place to sleep. So as such, you can escalate to a point, but pay close attention to the girl for cues as to how far. You'll probably have to wait until she gives the final go-ahead because the main way something more is going down at the hotel room, is if she and her friend iron out some sort of understanding.

But that will be out of your hands.

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I want to make a move eventually, but when would be a good time and how?

I mean, you should be escalating, but as for making a move towards sex, you're going to unfortunately have to take the final cues from her, because you all are sharing a room.

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I don’t want the friend to feel left out, but I also don’t want my behavior to encourage her to be a cockblock.

It's not your behavior that will encourage her to be a cockblock. She IS a cockblock, by definition, sort of.

Though, you invited her to the room too, so technically, YOU are the cockblock. Now it's up to the girls to provide an opportunity if there's going to be one.

You're best off trying to play it cool and build a foundation for what will likely be a 2nd meet close. This encounter could very well end up being the friend giving her stamp of approval on you.

And if they sort it out, this 3rd wheel might give her friend the okay to head back with you early so you have time at the room by yourselves. So definitely invite a mixed group of friends along if possible. Girls and guys. That way, it's more likely that she'll hit it off with with a guy or make friends with another girl, and she'll have someone to hang with. Otherwise, there's no way your date will leave her.

So to sum up:

Don't make assumptions that it will go all the way to sex. The lack of desperation and you being chill, will make it more likely that something will happen.
Invite a FEW friends if possible, to increase the chances that she hits it off with someone, and is paired off so she won't be alone if her friend leaves early with you.
And get at least TWO room key-cards from the front desk so she has a way in if you guys leave early!

2017-11-22T11:58:53+00:00

Have a friend come with you then he can get the other chick while you lay your moves on your girl.

Title	I️ might have just set myself up for an awkward weekend...how should I handle this situation !?
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Date	November 22, 2017 10:50 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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