I'm hanging out with a girl but I'm not sure if shes has a boyfriend

2017-11-26T19:14:57+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-27T02:25:52+00:00

I'm hanging out with a girl but I'm not sure if shes has a boyfriend

Good news! You. don't. need. to. ask.

If you're hanging with a girl and even just testing the waters, escalation-wise, she's GOING to find a way to bring up a boyfriend.

Why do you think she needs you to ask, for her to talk about a BF, if one exists?

Example: Met a cool girl a few weeks back. We were really getting along and had drifted off into our own seperate conversation, and as SOON as I started testing the waters with some arm touches, etc., she made a comment about "his mom, blah blah blah." And she hadn't been talking about a guy, so I had to ask, "Oh, who is 'he'?" It was a boyfriend.

Too many guys worry about this shit. If she has a boyfriend, she'll FIND a way to bring it up.

But if you have to ask, it's potentially problematic; unfortunately..... regardless of what you're like, it could make you look like you're incapable of reading cues and/or navigating a social interaction.

I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend or not so I'm worried that if I try and do anything, it will ruin our friendship.

If you do anything? What are you talking about? You make it sound as if the first stage of physical escalation is making out or full-blown sex.

When really, the opening stages of escalation involve small and even friendly sorts of touches that you might even engage in with GUYS. Safe stuff. And her reaction to those will tell you if it's welcome.

Her reaction to you being in her personal space will tell you a lot, even.

Title	I'm hanging out with a girl but I'm not sure if shes has a boyfriend
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Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	November 26, 2017 6:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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