How can I ask the receptionist at my gym out?

2017-12-14T15:43:22+00:00

well, first Id suggest that you accept that rejection is a very real possibility. Its just not as bad as you may think. The very worst that happens is that she says no very politely.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-12-14T15:51:47+00:00

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Short answer: Don't!

Longer answer: You're taking a remarkably short term view. The real value of having social connections with people who work at places like the gym is that they provide you the opportunity to meet SO MANY other people.

Do not burn this bridge by confusing her for a lead when, as you say, she is probably just friendly because of her job.

All those people constantly coming in, are you kidding me? They are proof of what you'd be fucking yourself out of if you made shit awkward. She has more value for you as a social connection.

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The point of a Point Person like this, is that you chat them up and then you end up meeting other people. Imagine this: you get in the habit of asking her about her day and getting her to open up. Shoot the shit, and chat her up while she's not busy with her duties; and other people are going to be coming up to join that conversation.

Girls who find you interesting, are going to find their way into that conversation.

Title	How can I ask the receptionist at my gym out?
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Date	December 14, 2017 3:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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