I was working yesterday night but I got off early. So, while I still had an hour until my bus came, I decided to hit the club solo.
I was sweaty but I just said fuck it and went inside.
It was ok. Not too crowded and not too empty.
I spotted a lot of cute chicks. I just started dancing by myself for starters.
I approached a girl and she wasn't very receptive (she didn't even tell me her name lol.).
I brushed it off and continued to dance.
What happened next really surprised me. A actualy attractive girl (HB7) came to me and asked me to make out. I just went with it. I had nothing to lose. +1 girl i kissed for me. Then she left but I didn't bother talking to her or following her.
Meanwhile, I was making random eye contact with this girl. I told my self "I'm gonna dance for a bit and then I will approach her". Turns out I waited TOO long
Another guy approached her. That guy was a creep actually. I spotted him trying to creep up begind girls to grind and he even was poking a girl on the arm for like 5 straight minutes without her even turning her head to face him...
They danced and they ended up making out.
Now, I didn't really care cause I was leaving anyway.
But the point is that, if I approached earlier, I could for sure be the guy making out with her. I just had to say hi. Then things would go their own way.
I think the reasons I didn't approach her when I had the chance were that: My breath was pretty bad and I had no gum, she was with 2 other friends and i didnt wanna get cockblocked and anxiety.
When that guy approached her, her friends were gone from them. They basically isolated the girl for him LOL.
I haven't conquered my approach anxiety as i thought I had.
Anyways, a good night with a decent kiss from an attractive girl and a lesson learned for my future clubbing nights
Stay frosty gents.
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