Today i wanted to cook some shawarma (delicious, like burrito but middle eastern) and went shopping for groceries. I don't live in US so i don't have huge supermarkets near me, my route has to be smart- hit multiply small shops to get all the ingredients with the smallest distance possible. Little did i know that, my first destination didn't have not 1, not 2 but 3 (!) ingredients i needed for my sweet, sweet, garlic shawarma. Did it hurt my feelings that ingredients weren't there? Yes. Did i blame myself for ingredients not being there or did i blame the food market for ingredients not being there? No. You see where i'm going with this?

Being rejected by a girl (boy) is not different than going the food shop and not getting there food that you wanted. It's not your fault, its not shops fault. Sometimes its just not there. Go to the next shop. Get the food, make the food, Be happy.