Friend Zoned, but feel like taking a shot anyway

2018-01-12T08:44:15+00:00

Don't worry about it. Friend zone means one of next 2 things (or both at the same time):

Wrong girl for you
She's not ready

Just forget about that. There are a lot of girls. If one door closes, there are other ones, try them. I m sure somewhere there is Right girl for you.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-01-12T12:26:45+00:00

I don't think "Listen, I've always thought you were sexy so when you come into town next week we should get together and fuck" is appropriate, but Hell maybe it is, my lack of experience means I don't know.

why the fuck are you stating your intentions?

E4mad · 2018-01-12T09:38:58+00:00

Agree with other poster... and never be that upfront. It will make the most people uncomfortable and it is a form of sexual intimidation. The most important lesson I could give you, is be yourself. My brother is not as good looking, nor interesting, but he is 100% himself. He seduced girls with "miaow" or "what a sexy chair are you sitting on". Go to bars

Besides; hooking up/liking someone sexual is all in the oder. We can smell if another person has a better Immune system than we do. And if that's so, then we hook up! So with the coffee girl, it wouldn't matter if you are talking or dressing different. She smelled you and knew in <1 second that she didn't want to have more than coffee :)

[Other side of the coin: 'smelled' my girlfriend almost 8 years ago. Kissed a lot, but I wasn't ready and therefore we were friends. Two years ago I was ready and we are happy in a relationship. BUT difference is, we ARE compatible!]

Title	Friend Zoned, but feel like taking a shot anyway
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	January 12, 2018 8:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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