Rich and fit. Bad at game but learning. Divorce pending.

stillnoturday · 2014-11-27T09:43:56+00:00

You don't owe anyone an explaination especially women.

On the when they ask "what do you do?" tell them something along the lines of "bussiness" or "my job is boring but it pays the build" or even "self-employed" The point is to keep it ambiguous.

bsutansalt · 2014-11-27T18:12:14+00:00

It's all about frame control. The divorce can be framed in such a way you're the prize.

Yeah I was married but we got divorced.
What happened?
We weren't a good match. The good news is I learned from the experience. These days I'm much more selective. :insert cocky funny line referencing her:

The implications here are that you aren't putting her on any sort of pedestal and are judging her carefully.

imaterriblelurker · 2014-11-27T11:37:19+00:00

The truth is that I was honest and reliable, tried to keep the family together, but my wife became a hardcore feminist, turned mean, fucked less, started thinking life would be better with one of her beta orbiters etc, standard story.

Everyone has a better opinion of themselves than what reality might show. How did you become rich? By working insane hours and neglecting your family. She probably did not go for a beta orbiter, but most likely someone whom she would be more compatible with.

In any case OP: Your social standing is weakened by having 1 divorce and kids with an ex-wife. Most of the divorce statistic is inflated by people who marry and divorce several times. Being divorced once, means you are more likely to divorce again.

I get that you want to keep your money secret, but unless you are going for the bar wenches, there is no way keeping your money secret would help any sort of relationship. If you are as wealthy as you claim, you can easily get with a doctor, engineer or software developer who wont have that gold digger entitlement. You're in luck too, as most women who have that kind of education are usually well off from their own endevours and wont seek to grab at your wealth too.

The downside of this, is that you will have to start approaching women who are not in bars or clubs. It may be more difficult to establish rapport and easier to bed them, but LTR wise they bring nothing to the table.

What are your goals with regards to women OP?

ONS: Go to as many bars and clubs as possible. You will score because some women are just out to get laid just like you.

LTR; Guaranteed no Gold digger: You need to put in some effort to remain interesting at least until she gets to know you. I would recommend someone you share a hobby with. (Climbing, cayaking, hiking, gym any type of sport and activity really) Try to get a woman who has approximately the same social standing as you do.

LTR; Gold digger maybe: Meet someone in a social setting, museum, park, coffee bar etc. Keep your wealth hidden, easier when she does not know your surname and you tell her you work freelance.

LTR; Gold digger guaranteed: Any type of bar or hook-up area and especially if the woman is 10+ years younger than you.

The choice is yours OP, and stop blaming your ex-wife. You fucked up by not being there and as a man the onus is on YOU to salavage a relationship because you control the commitment. At least according to RP.

Title	Rich and fit. Bad at game but learning. Divorce pending.
Author	rouge_pill
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	November 27, 2014 7:59 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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