Basically, I'm one of those dudes who can be witty and sarcastic and sexual over text to get dates online, but then I start being too safe and not as bold when it comes time to meet up. I know it's normal, but if my in person dating success was like my online chat success, I would have had sex with at least 100 girls by now.

So does anyone have advice on how to kinda build myself up to this or at least start trying to merge the two? Because I'm pretty sure my online dating persona is the real me vs. the scared safe guy I become in person with those girls. I make moves and I do get laid, but I'm not the same.