Hey all,

Today I wanted to talk about something that I noticed around my circles and I disliked. And for that, I have one thing to say:

Remember the Journey.

When you started this seduction & (hopefully mostly) self-improvement journey, you were most likely, some way or another, lower value than now. You struggled but you made it. You became a man of higher value. This translates, among other things, that girls you had difficulties picking up a couple of years ago are now much easier for you.

Now I see two things that you can benefit from by remembering all this:

  • First, I see some of these guys becoming such dicks, treating 6s or anything below like shit. This journey was all about becoming someone better. Remember that the focus of all this is elevating yourself to the next level and trying to elevate anyone you interact with to something better ("Leave them better than you found them"). Sure you're allowed to have standards. But please, just because you aren't sexually/romantically interested in a girl doesn't mean you have to reject her like an ass. We were all rejected at some point in this journey; and from that we learned that this was something to be proud of, as we had the courage to try. Keep this in mind in all your interactions, being nice to anyone doesn't cost much and is generally a good idea.

  • Second, look at you a couple of years ago. Now look at you right now. You can be proud! At the start of this journey, you wanted to improve on at least one thing. Maybe you were socially awkward. Maybe you didn't really take care of yourself how you should. Maybe you lacked ambition and motivation, and were indulging in mediocrity. Whatever it was, you had your challenges and you conquered them. Congrats. What you have today wasn't taken for granted back then. Don't take them for granted now either, this is a continuous process. Reflecting on the progress made is an incredible feeling; which should be proof enough that this is worth it and you can always be better! Don't rest on your laurels! ;) No matter how far you've come.

Peace,
b1ood