During the beginning of the school year (late August, early September) I had a ONS with a HB9. We talked afterwards and one day after hanging out it was clear she wanted to have sex again but I was honestly not in the mood. Last semester, it was a bit hot and cold with us with her talking about me to her friends & her even talking about me to someone close to me. Since then, I learned to leave her alone and not pay as much attention to her despite her looks and our past.

Last week, it seemed like I saw her everyday and each time she saw me I was with a different woman than before. I noticed this the first time when I was talking to two women at the same time at a party and she was constantly looking over at me across the room. The second time, we didn’t talk at all until I left and I (purposely) gave her a handshake instead of a hug bye. Everyone else got hugs but her. The most obvious one is when I was playing pong with an extremely attractive girl and she came out of her way to leave the dance area of a party and talk to her friend right by me. Mind you this balcony had a lot of space yet she wanted to get by me. That night she kept on giving me the look and making eye contact with me but after going through this before, I ignored her.

Now I know her birthday has either passed or it’s coming soon, but I want to get back on good terms again. I noticed that whenever I texted her it was a problem, but in person we were good. What can I do without coming off as needy? I think that was the problem from before.