Just like the title says, what advice on here has lead to you changing your pickup/dating habits for the better? I feel like many people, including myself, do not do enough of this. We read a concept and intellectually understand it, but in the moment forget it and resort to instincts. Or even sometimes we read, watch, and listen to hours of content involving self help, seduction tactics, mindsets, but do not actually actively integrate it into our interactions with women.
One for me was the idea of recording your interactions. As potentially creepy as it sounds, it works wonders in seeing where you're at. Some habits I have picked up on include talking too fast, asking too many platonic, boring questions, sounding nervous, and lacking color/energy in my voice. Of course, this cannot account for the non-auditory aspects of your approach, such as eye contact, body positioning, nervous tics, arm position, and even what she is doing when you are approaching her.
What about you guys? Curious to hear, especially from the more advanced Casanovas, what took you from no success to minimal or even great success.
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