Firstly, I really don't know what this post is even about. I just felt like making it because truthfully I could give two fucks about any woman (besides my mom) or a relationship, whether it be befriending dudes or finding a mate.

And so far. This has worked for me. Lol. I have read so much articles and had many experiences with all types of chicks. But to be frank no matter what I accomplish or what I can gain from it, I honestly can't bring myself to care enough. Sure if you're cool, and I consider you a friend I will stick my neck out for you, love you and listen, but don't think for a second I'm going to give up my private time for anybody. That's between me and god, my privacy is extremely important to me and if I don't get it I will completely fall into a deep abyss of pure and utter confusion.

The funny thing is, the more distant and private I am....the more attention I get. Why does the universe work like this? It gives you what you don't really want, and deprives you of what you do want. That's because when it comes to the things you don't want, you probably approach it in a calm and collected way, aka, you don't give a fuck. People like people who seem stable and cool, and when you don't care about something the more "cool" you will seem. For example, I pleaded and pleaded to get a band started, to play shows, gig, and all that jazz, but I was going after it so relentlessly that I was attracting what I love the most away from me. The world will let you know where you stand, believe me, so if you really want something, go at it with respect and love. Let it flow. Don't ever force anything. Just be yourself and have fun. Becoming a musician has made me see the world for what it is, and for what I am. Sure, I could use more drive in some areas, but the fact is perception is everything. The more people can relate to you, the more something can depend on you, the more valuable you will become. I am not the best guitar player, but I make up for it with my energy and songwriting. To this day I still believe I am a shit artist, and it seriously so crazy when you find or meet someone who enjoys your work. It's like living in your own body, you see all your imperfections, but others don't. You live with yourself everyday.

All apologies for the digression, but I've noticed this is the exact same thing when it comes to attracting the kind of woman you want. Since females are masters of body language and instinct everything must be perception to them. If you act like you don't care, things will work out for the most part. Show a little interest obviously, but NEVER to much. One thing that sets us apart from women is our ability to keep "cool." As a man it is your job to handle yourself as one, whether you feel that way or not. Performing shows has helped me with this. You aren't always going to feel like the second-coming. But that is alright, accept it and make it your own. Remember that you are fucking amazing and you deserve your peace. Love yourself to love others, else you will just be doing a disservice to everyone.

If you want that chick so bad, pretend she's just another fat chick you have no interest in. Pretend she's your sister. Her liking you is not the end all be all of the world, and a woman can solely learn a lot about you just by how you carry yourself. Treat yourself like a king, and you'll be treated like one. Ever wonder how some guys seem to have everything working for them?

It's not. They are just smart enough to see the bigger picture.

There is only one rule to getting women: being yourself, and being cool. Yes I said it. Being cool. That's it. Just enjoy the fucking moment. Be grateful for what you have instead of what you don't. The universe will work in your favor if you work in favor of the universe.

It is completely okay to feel down, but when you let it affect your relationships with others, or take it out on anyone or anything besides yourself you are letting your lower self simply get the best of you. Snap out of it. Control your thoughts and use your brain. Everyone has problems. If you aren't having a good day, take a break, stay in, meditate, do whatever keeps you sane. But as soon as you begin to let your feelings dictate your actions you will be in for a really bad fucking ride. Leave that stuff to the chicks.

Be a man. Put yourself in that cute girl's shoes. What would you want to see? How would you want to be treated?

Inspire others, show love, have peace and be easy to one another. We have enough problems in the world.