I went out with my business partner/best friend to town last night. It was epic although we didn't close! We're beginners but we have the benefit of being door to door salesmen so have already conquered the rejection fear -- mostly.

So I'll break down the wins and fails. Note: I consider it all enriching experience!

1) Club dude defends girl

I start dancing with a gorgeous girl and introduce myself, shake hands, ask for her name. I realise that she's with a dude, I introduce myself. I leave to go mingle, walking past their direction later on in the night and she flirty waves me over. The dude she was with who hadn't left her side this entire time said "Fuck off Bro! Follow the Bro Code!" and the girl said "Have a good night". I move on.

Perhaps if I were more physically alpha I would intervene, I don't gym.

2) Sitting at table and 4 girls join us My mate and I were talking to some girls at a table but they left the club for some reason. Then 4 girls came and joined us! 3 7s, 1 6 and 1 8.5. I was yarning to the 8.5 for some time. We talked about free drinks at the bar promotion, my job, her job, how I was travelling to Sydney for the week with some new friends I recently made in a hostel while I was in between flats last week, her love of Sydney and Melbourne. I bought her a drink and added her on facebook. We left because our family friend invited us on his nearby catamaran. We were 'not allowed' to bring the girls.

How could I have escluated this? (unless we could have brought the girls back to the yacht). This was at about 11:30 so still early.

3) Walking to the next club, we spoke to two randoms very briefly. Just asked about club logistics.

4) Outside the line at the club I bumped in to a girl I knew during High School. I invited them to come in our uber to a more chill bar and they agreed! Laughing the whole way there. I danced with the girl a lot, when we were sitting out back.

Two situations occurred:

There were two guys there, one of them was a sales men like me (he must've been 25+) and his friend. They were sitting outside with the girls. I walked over, the girls made space for me in the middle of them. The dudes had mad adoration for me because I'm a door to door sales men amongst other things, but it put off my girl because he was sleazy and reciting stupid shit to me.

Secondly, we were laughing about this dude in a trench coat staring at us, I said let's give him something to look at and I put my fingers on her lips (this is after she requested that I feel her thighs etc) but I didn't really do it well enough. I expected she would turn and kiss me but it just failed. Then she left shortly after hahaha

5) I yarn with girl I hit on ages ago but nothing happened. She said she doesn't go out much anymore. We had a conversation with depth but I think that's bad. That's almost like my go to, I don't exactly say it but I might as well say that I feel like I'm hanging around in Auckland and dislike it and feel like I'm persevering. Not exactly furthering the relationship. Not tactful conversation. That's what I want to work on next.

I'm ok at approaching and body language. Need to improve conversation and flirting.

Then I went home.