1. Passing shit tests seems to be an important skill as a PUA. If you actually have standards, you will be looking for a certain type of girl. Why don't I ever see people here talking about shit-testing the girl? You do want a certain kind of girl and it makes you harder to get and therefore more attractive, right?

  2. I've been reading this sub for two weeks and a defining theme for talking to girls seems to be having a confident, almost arrogant demeanor and always joking around. It seems that that is the quickest way to get into the friend zone or ditched? In all my social circles the guys who have lots of girl friends but no girlfriend have exactly these qualities.