So what’s the play here, fellas? Obviously I’ve struck out on this one (which sucks, she had everything I want in a possible partner), but I don’t want to necessarily cut off someone who could actually be a good friend. She said she really likes having me as a friend, and still wants me to teach her about some of my hobbies. We click as people, I just failed to effectively present myself as a sexual possibility. That and, frankly, I have very few female friends, so adding one to my circle is certainly a good thing.

However, her qualities that would make her a great friend are some of the same qualities that really attracted me to her (a hot body doesn’t excite me without an interesting mind and good character). Obviously, that isn’t a super healthy place for me to be at.

So, gentlemen (and the 2-3 ladies around here), what do you suggest?