The biggest change that’s helped me get better at “game” over the years has been becoming more clear of my intentions. In each interaction whether it’s text, cold approach, social circle, a date, day game etc. I tend to be clear in my head about what I’m trying to do and then adjusting my strategy and tactics to get it done.

Years, back I’d try to “impress” girls by telling them I read a hard book or ran really fast, or that my career was going well but it would actually take me off course from trying to lay them, I was just placating my own ego instead of following through on my desires.

So the first part of being clear in my intent is that when I see a girl I potentially am interested in my intent is to fuck her brains out because that feels good for me. The whole interaction from opening, physical interaction, to getting her number, to conversation, is being done for the intent of my pleasure so as I’m leading I’m clear of where I’m trying to get to. Don’t get this jaded, I’m not trying to totally dominate or repress the chick, it’s just that when I escalate physically or tease her verbally I’m doing it because it feels good to me. If she isn’t enjoying something obviously stop.

One of the most powerful things knowing my own intent has done for me is rejecting women I don’t like. If someone’s rude to me, or is doing something that I find unattractive, or even if they’re just being boring I’m happy to just pull the plug and walk or make it clear I’m not happy with their behavior. Again, this has worked WONDERS in how many girls I’ve pulled after it.

What’s helped you guys in your game?