I have a crush on this shy girl in my classes, how to proceed?

2018-06-24T22:14:08+00:00

First, what you’re describing falls under the general category of a girl saying, “I’m busy.” Everyone is busy. You also have exams and you are working on passing your classes. She is not doing anything that you are not doing. When people are that interested, they make the time. If she was that interested, it would not be in her best interest to make you wait until she “clears some course.” I would lay off and if she eventually comes around, consider it because then you will approaching from the frame of mind that she is genuinely interested in being with you.

Second, when someone says that they are too busy, you have to remember that with any of these things, YOU are the prize. You should at least treat yourself as such. If she is not willing to put in the time, you would be in for a bad experience. Treat yourself well and don’t worry about it.

You tried in this situation, she did not display a high level of interest. Could it work eventually, maybe. Should you continue to dedicate a lot of effort to it, maybe not. Things work when you meet the right person at the right time. She may be a great person, but it does not seem that it is the RIGHT time for her.

Good luck!

Title	I have a crush on this shy girl in my classes, how to proceed?
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Date	June 24, 2018 9:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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