Feel like I'm pretty bad with girls and dating in general, how can I improve?

WIA20XX · 2018-07-06T23:46:31+00:00

All your success is far more than a lot of guys here. So count your blessings.

I'm getting the sense that a lot of the guys here don't want to be players/pickup artists.

You can still do good numbers by.
- going out a lot.
- making friends and meeting new people.
- instead of getting Snapchat or phone numbers, hanging out with the girl when you !first meet her.

A basic law of pickup is that the girl is more attracted to you when you're in her physical presence than she is when you're just another notification on her iPhone.

So if you're at a house party or a concert, tell the cute chick -

"We're going to Waffle House/24 hour diner, come with"

Just getting the girl to go with you to the next place is big. Then do it again.

"I've got a hookah/beers/etchings from the 11th century at my place, come over it'll be fun."

You have to lead these girls to make good decisions.

She's not going to do any of the work, that's your job.

Now a pickup artist will do a lot of stuff to make this smoother, to turn a yellow light into a green light - but just get in the car for now.

Title	Feel like I'm pretty bad with girls and dating in general, how can I improve?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	July 6, 2018 11:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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