Any advice here on how to do smoother escalation? Went on a date yesterday & ultimately pulled to my place & got head at the end of the night... but it took me a VERY VERY long time :( . (Date started at 5 PM, didnt even kiss her till 2 AM).

1) At one point around 8 PM we were walking to the grocery store...and we were having a funny, sexual innuendo filled conversation. I was saying that i am actually leading her to a dark alley to choke her. (earlier we were laughing about how my old Tinder Bio was that I'm fresh out of jail and that Ive killed people lol so its based off that). she was laughing & playing along with the story… 'doing improv' with me. I KNOW that implies that she is down, if she is accepting my sexual jokes, and she is giving me signs, following me, etc... BUT HOW to transition smoothly? I feel that I was just making jokes about it and being dorky, but didn’t know how to really go into hooking up or seeding something sexual or some intent. What would you do/say here to get more sexual with her or initiate something?

2) 9 PM: I asked if she wanted to come over and chill, and she was down. We get to my place- 10 PM: we started watching Sense 8 on netflix. I dont give a fuck about the show, i just wanted to fuck this girl. It took me 3 fucking hours to even kiss her because i couldn't think of how to initiate it, do it smoothly, and have it be NATURAL. Eventually, it happened but FML it took me so long. Any tips? Maybe things to say to make it natural to just kiss or w/e? I feel awkward doing it if we haven't talked about it or anything or if we were just talking about a tv show. I need tips on planting the seeds of sexual intent and ways to escalate to a kiss faster. Any help or advice is appreciated!

Thanks fam!