Went out last night and naturally got talking to some girls who were a with male orbiter co-worker and after going through the motions I eventually reached my flow state. We were chilling and I sensed something was gonna happen but I ended up doing something stupid. I had been giving out cigarettes all night to this girl and she had giving me a few drinks all night as well so I wasn't fussed. The stupid thing I did was I dropped a cigarette down her top as a joke I know stupid. She was talking to another girl at the time as I did this and the girl she was talking too started giving me shit. calling me rude and shamming me and started to convince the other girl who I had been talking to all night that I was rude aswell but magical what I did was as soon as this started to happen I simply kept my body turned away and refused to give them eye contact or any form of acknowledgement on what was being said and simply started talking to other people for a little while and comeback with the same frame of mind I had before of having fun and not overly justifying everything. The girl who was giving me shit wasn't a close friend of hers anyways and ended up leaving and me and the other girl from before simply carried on like nothing happened. The male co-worker was constantly being a white knight and got upset when two amogers tried to get in on the girl who I had been talking too but they were drunk and I basically wasn't worried at all but the male co-worker flipped out and lost his shit and went home on his own. The amogers eventually ran out of ideas and decided to give up leaving me finally with the girl i wanted to take home so after a long night of maintaining a strong frame and not getting worked up about things that are not in my control i managed to get a taxi with the girl and the rest is history.