I haven’t been with a girl in a while, but I knew her. I laid with her in the car and was grabbing her boobs and ass, but she didn’t wanna kiss because she said I was still “ a stranger “ and we haven’t really hung out much.

I’m just confused, because was she trying to have sex? She laid on me cuddling and talked about how my cologne smelled good. I was spitting game in the car and I was doing well. But I just don’t get it why didn’t she wanna kiss?

She likes xans and wants to come over and chill this week with me and lay on my bed ( what she said last night ) . My problem is my in person game is way better over text and my friend just always is able to get girls so easily over text ( he texted her from my phone ), I feel like when I hit her up I get caught up in what to say, it’s not as smooth.

We were off the xans last night but she remembers us in the car and told my friend it was a “ chill vibe “ but she wanted to go inside next time.

Can anyone help me wrap my head around this? Is it the post Xanax hangover making me doubt myself? Or why is it that the energy I felt in person from her I don’t feel on Snapchat or texting?

Can someone help me take a step back and analyze this? Please, thanks so much