I wanted to give some reasons to help out other guys but also open for feedback of course. I am going to make this short as possible just because you can read it better.
So a few weeks ago I got this girls number and set up a first day date. She was rather shy, her sense of style wasn't all that good but had a decent face and ok body. At the date she did little talking, after a while I ran out of things to say. She resorted to asking me about my favourite movies and food, stuff like that. There was sexual tension and we ended up french kissing 4 times. Sex was possible, but she wanted to wait. So ok, I went home and texted her a picture of my skateboard (we talked about that) and said:"Oh yeah it's the xx brand". Immediately after that we set up a date for the day after tomorrow. The night before the date she flaked on me saying she had to work. But her story about work, and what she was doing for the summer was really shaky (she is 18 and still young). Actually I believed she lied. She had nothing else to do and used me for validation. When she flaked I just didn't answer, went ghost on her. In a way I felt it coming, I am almost a ''veteran'' even though I am in the game for a year now.

So the point I am trying to make is. She already lied, flaked, and used me for validation. How many guys go through this? Probably 95%. When you flake, you already squish the feelings, the build up, the fun. I am not the type of person that sits here all day trying to reschedule, or text back and forth. Everything was already streamlined, disruption to that process isn't a good sign in my book.

So why do guys still bother after the first flake?