Hello seddit, long time lurker here! I'm recently single and I have being seeing multiple women and trying to avoid a scarcity mindset. Unfortunately I noticed I have more mental investment in one girl over the others. Let's call her Sarah. I'm 25m Hispanic and am currently seeing 3 girls.

The one in question is 2 years older than me and only wants a FWB relationship with me. I am totally fine with that, and have made that clear to her. My problem is that she maintains seeing me every 2 weeks on average. We have not had sex yet but she said she was down to. We have made out every time we see each other though. Yet we only meet on nights that she can't stay out late.

Recently she messaged me and said that she would have to postpone our meet up for another two weeks. I have been maintaining little texting conversation with her so that we can chat more in person. Me question is should I try to hook her, stop responding, or something in the middle.

I was thinking of responding "no worries "sarah." I'll let you know closer to the day if I can go." Or something along those lines.

Should I just stop texting her or should I try another method to create interest again?