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[–]jwojtt 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honesty I think youdid everything right. Except trying to fuck her without a condom lmfaoo. I been there done that too but I get anxiety about it later, and especially a young college girl like that could’ve been tripped out about that. I dunno but you did good I think but you can’t win em all
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that was really dumb of me and i apologized to her then and there. Also thanks man, thats the attitude I need have about this.
[–]IntensePancakes 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never fuck without a condom, that goes without saying.
LMR is always tough. The key to getting through it is to not make her feel pressured while still keeping thing the mood light and sexy and showing that you are still interested in sex. Perhaps in your second attempt at escalation you went a bit too fast?
If she has not responded your follow up text, I'd send her just one more text and if there is still no response, cut your losses and move on.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I already deleted all of her contact information in the spirit of "cant win em all". Feels good man
[–]IntensePancakes 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right on!
[–]swayvey-baby 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Bro, nowhere in your post did you mention something that she did or said that could be interpreted as consent.
Just because she’s okay being on top of you and making out with you while your dick is out, does not mean she is okay with sex.
She probably felt extremely violated that you did that with no condom and no warning.
That wasn’t a seduction mistake. That was a serious violation of another person, especially because you weren’t even wearing a condom.
You should seriously apologize to her and acknowledge that what you did was wrong. Then never do anything like that again.
You should also reconsider how you treat women.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
=Don't be a clown dude. You clearly did not read this post.
[–]swayvey-baby 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Her reaction said it all. She was in no way comfortable with you putting your dick in her.
I know I’m a stranger, but you can either take this advice and learn something hard about yourself or disregard it and keep treating people in a way that is seriously wrong.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think your confused about what happened friend but thats okay. I know what the word "no" means. appreciate the concern :)
[–]swayvey-baby 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Firstly, when you went to grab a condom, she did say “no” but you hadn’t given her a chance to even say that before you penetrated her.
Also, not saying “no” doesn’t mean it’s a “yes”.
It’s possible I don’t understand the situation because I wasn’t there, but based on what you wrote, you did not have consent.
[–]pointster_VSK 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re more butthurt for the girl than she is for herself. Lmao
[–]temerity18 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound like a woman.
[–]fuckingoddamnname -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are u female?
OP, you did everything right except trying to fuck her without a condom.
What happened was her ASD kicked in, hence the comment about her not fucking on a first date.
She was still down when she complied to flash her ass but you escalated too quickly. I would’ve gotten her boobs out and played with those instead, or built some more comfort.
But After the second escalation attempt , i guess she just felt ashamed of herself and bailed.
I would say just give her some space since she didn’t respond. Take a mental note and learn from your mistake.
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