what does this concept mean to you? RSD owen mentioned it in one of his videos. for me it's a mindset thing....basically when you go out, or approach, or whatever, you have to keep your objective in mind (conversing and flirting with girls using game skills) rather than let yourself get distracted by either your own insecurity, anxiety, or other people. has anyone else had times when they found this difficult? like you go to a party with the intent of getting a girl but just end up making small talk and looking dumb...or same thing at a bar, or for instance you are talking to one girl solo but then her friends or other people show up, shutting down your show. i think the real glory would be in keeping it going despite the odds

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there were a couple periods of time i just stopped going out until i could promise myself i was actually going to get into the zone and make an effort with the girls, rather than just walk around and make small talk and seem autistic and stupid...because if you don't actually APPROACH it truly is a waste of time and one that makes it very evident you are socially retarded. the fact that you are going to approach should be a given, thereby freeing up your brainpower for the mechanics and style of it.

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other things i have done so far that have seemed to help are i stopped porn altogether (i stil whak off tho once in awhile just because use it or lose it yknow), started working out / running and eating more and healthier...i wanna gain muscle from a scrawny 5'6" 122 to around 135 by winter