So I had a girlfriend for a while whom I was planning on keeping until I finished my Web Development bootcamp. That turned into a disaster but at least I feel like I have enough leverage to start going out again. I feel like I improve faster when I write field reports so here's the reports from the last three nights:

Thursday 9/6/2018

Last night I went on a date at Press Play in Boulder at 8. It was with a cute, nerdy ph.D student. We met around 8 and hit it off pretty well. Our banter was pretty good though she was pretty sensitive about getting to close to me. I think she has some sort of dating “rules” like no kissing on the first date and the like. I just broke up with my girlfriends so I’m desperate enough to be patient with her (for now) around 10 she had to go to sleep so I walked her to her car, and hugged her and sent her on her way. I bounced around the bars a little bit then met a cute hippy girl whom I asked to grab a drink with me, she declined and I asked her to grab some tea instead. She was up for this so we went to the Trident and chatted a bit. I think I overgamed a bit and spooked her and she left. My calibration is off since I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago, I feel like if I keep hitting it up I’ll get better. I met up with a dude from Inner Circle and we winged a bit. We bounced around from the Sundowner to tahona and other places. I eventually lost my voice and left. 3 things I did well: Got the Redhead to go on a date and lead the interaction. Landed the instadate with the girl an led her to another venue. Kept approaching and gathering instagrams.

3 things that need improvement: Escalating things in a natural way. I’m still overgaming a bit and need to slow down. I should start hitting up girls who’s instagrams I collect that night to meet up later.

Friday 9/7/2018

Yesterday I finished applying to Tech Academy, cleaned, did my Egoscue exercises and went out. I started at ViewHouse and did some approaches there. My goal was to slow down and not overgame. There was some improvement over yesterday. I met a couple of party girls from florida and talked to them for a while. Things were going good and one offered me a cig and I declined in a somewhat sheepish manner. They also had this hulking male friend who was cool. He was a bit of an AMOG but we got along though I think I got the shorter end the interaction as I was concentrating on being non-affected rather than jabbing back which I should have done. Another set I found out she was a marketer and I busted her balls hardcore for that and she started going after me hard for that. I don’t remember too much of the interaction but I got her insta. Another girl said she lived in the woods or something and claimed she only contacted people through email. Whatever. The best set was 2 girls where one was in town with her friend. When I was interacting with them my wings were nowhere to be found. I should have texted one of them to take the friend. We chatted for a while and I got them out of the bar together to go smoke 420. I wasn’t quite able to get them to my van to drive them home to smoke. They ended up leaving and seemed to be trying to get rid of me. Maybe I should have pushed harder, or followed them home? It didn’t feel right though so I settled for a number. I was walking back to my car when I spotted a girl on her phone. She was going thorough a rough time and bought me a drink. I ended up driving her home but couldn’t make anything happen during that time. Overall much better than Thursday but I still have a long way to go to get back to my peak. 3 things I did well: Slowed down and let the girls come to me. Led the interaction. Was persistent. 3 things that need improvement: More persistence burn the set down Used wings or random dodes to occupy friend. Flirt more and establish a more sexual interaction.

Saturday 9/8/2018

Last Night I went out to an art thing at Matchbox in Denver around 8:30 as some people on the Inner Circle were meeting there. I wandered around looking for them for a bit, realized they weren’t there and decided to start approaching anyway. I did some ok approaches and got a couple flakey insta’s then ran up on this two sets of cute girls. We hit it off pretty fast and their male friend eventually joined us. I won over the group and they invited me to go to Paul Oakenfold who was playing at Beta. I drove us there and we went there. While we were in like the blond who is the one I initially connected with was video chatting with her girlfriend in Taiwan. She talked about how she felt weird with her girlfriend but immediately started dancing with some dode. I was a bit too disgusted with her and eventually walked away from the group to find new people to meet. I met a cute girl sitting alone on a bench and we chatted a bit then went inside to dance. We danced a bit and kissed and I realized that I need to desensitize myself to female touch again because I became way to discombobulated to the point that when she told me to save her spot where we were dancing I just nodded dumbly. She didn’t come back and it 10 minutes I left the dance floor and went outside again. I saw my original group and joined them. I lent my phone to the brunette to take some pictures and we chatted for a while. Then she started talking to a dude next to her and I saw a cute two set and opened them. I quickly convinced them to meet my friends and led them back to the original spot and they were gone, and the brunette still had my phone! I frantically searched for them for a while till eventually the dude the brunette was talking too told me where they were and I found them on the dance floor. I danced with them a bit and who do I see out of the corner of my eye but the girl I was dancing with before. I danced with her until the show was over then she invited me to an afterparty. I texted the other girls the location and followed her to the afterparty location. I got out of my car and was walking to hers when she teared out of her parking lot and drove off. She forgot her jacket at the club. Typical. I met some hustler who got me into the afterparty for half price and I proceeded to burn the place to the ground though I was in a weird mood considering the events. I eventually left alone but overall I’m seeing pretty big progress over this weekend which is good. My games coming back faster then it has before which is a good sign. 3 things I did well: Won over a group to the point where they invited me to Beta, and won over the girl to the point where she invited me to the afterparty.

Escalated with the dancing girl smoothly.

My state control was pretty good considering what happened.

3 things that need improvement:

I should have calibrated better when the blonde was talking to her girlfriend. I got a bit jealous and that screwed things up.

When the girl I was dancing with had to go to the bathroom I should have taken her there and waited outside.

If a girl has my phone I should never let her out of my sight.