Hello community,

Not my main account here, long time lurker, 21 years shy guy with zero experience in dating and sex presenting here.

So, I matched with a girl whose female friend found me attractive. This said girl is 28 years, and I got her number directly. We have been messaging, she sent me some photos of her (she looks attractive, at least on those 6-7 photos) and her instagram. The problem is, I dont see us having a serious relationship, but she looks into me, and we have some good conversations (thats quite rare from me).

Ive been thinking on taking her to a bar or something, but I dont have experience on that either. We both live with our parents but I can go with a car (I have a good control on how much to drink to drive).

How do I proceed? Should I ask her out and make more clear that I dont want anything serious? Do I go with a car to a bar?

Many thanks!

EDIT: Forgot to say that I think I'm more open with her than girls around my age. Maybe its an opportunity to just have a date, have some fun, and be less awkward with girls

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