Going to a girls house tomorrow as a virgin. Advice?

2018-09-20T17:51:48+00:00

Slow down tiger!

There are a lot of steps between "no experience kissing" and losing your virginity. It's possible you'll end up there, but given that assumption, running in with your lack of experience could run the train off the tracks.

Who knows? Perhaps this girl wants your penis in her vagina as quickly as possible. If so, feel free to go with it.

But often that's not how these things play out. Kiss for a bit. Touch, but in "safe places" like arms, neck, back, and eventually sliding down towards butt. Don't treat that as an annoying pitstop on the way to the "real" destination. Have fun! Enjoy it!

It may sound counter-intuitive, but my sense is that enjoying the journey—having fun and being comfortable with every step along the way—makes it more likely that you'll lend up going further. Focusing on quickly going further, makes it more likely that you won't go very far at all.

Besides, kissing and touching are fun.

magicalgin · 2018-09-20T17:43:11+00:00

Use protection

TheresNoFallDamage · 2018-09-20T23:38:04+00:00

It’s lower than you think

b0ng00se · 2018-09-21T00:33:33+00:00

you should have no expectations and don't push any on her. And don't lie about anything that's the most off-putting a guy can do.

CodenameBait · 2018-09-21T01:25:55+00:00

Just my 2 cents, set your expectations on a fun time. If your having fun its easier to get laid, than going out to get laid & forgetting to have a good time.

2018-09-21T07:50:03+00:00

Best advice: make sure you hit the correct hole.

ShannonAnon · 2018-09-20T20:52:13+00:00

Ensure you clear the tubes before hand this will make you last longer ( if you Fuck her ) but it will relax you the fuck down and make you more nonchalant, and therefore less likely to fuck up Worked for me on many many occasions

321gumby · 2018-09-21T07:15:11+00:00

If you leave a virgin....then walk of a cliff game over.

badday12 · 2018-09-20T20:04:42+00:00

take some condoms with you, and tell her that you are a V... she will discover it anyway.

Title	Going to a girls house tomorrow as a virgin. Advice?
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Upvotes	17
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Date	September 20, 2018 5:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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