Went to the beach with a few friends this weekend. One cute girl in particular who I invited, wanting to get to know her more. She is from Europe and asked if she could bring a couple more European friends along, I didn’t mind.

One of the friends was a European boy who I could quickly see she had already established deeper rapport with than myself (This was our first real hangout outside of sitting together in class). He was good looking & pretty smooth (both of which I am as well) but the pre-established rapport they had built seemed to be the foundation for the whole trip. I had a difficult time breaking this and establishing myself as the alpha male in the situation.

Any tips on how to come in between in this situation? Maybe isolating her more? Negging him a bit while she is watching? Not sure how to win that Alpha position quickly in her eyes when he’s taken it a bit already. Need to somehow establish myself as higher value in her eyes than him, just not sure how.