Hi all, was wondering if this could be dissected. So I don't lose pussy again. Thx.

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Failed date:

Date was going smoothly. No clue what happend,

1hr into first venue,  Light verbal escalation (she was receptive). Mostly comfort.

Bounce to 2nd venue after 1hr and she decides to leave during bounce.

(maybe I didn't escalate fast enough?)

Things that may have fucked it:

I said I'm 19 (I am), she's 27.

Said my place was a 15 min walk after she asked where I lived, and decided to bounce shortly after (was intending to bounce to another bar, but she may have thought I'm taking her to my place - sets off alarms?)

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she did say "i'm looking to settle down" but she stuck around for an hour and was compliant to a bit of kino and all verbal escalation.

Yes, she was willing to get fucked and I wasn't smooth enough. Guaranteed.

Lessons learned:

Don't say the wrong things
Escalate harder?