Hey guys,
Daygame Australia here.
I'm pretty damn new to this whole Reddit thing...
And I want to hit the ground running with some quality posts and information. Here's the first of hopefully many future articles!
[Before I start, I'd love for you guys to leave a comment with any feedback you have about what I can do to make these posts even better into the future. Thanks in advance]
Today I'd like to quickly share a few easy tips that you NEED to implement when cold-approaching new girls during the day.
(That is, if you want to attract them and have the girls invest enough to actually reply to your texts)
So here goes:
Every approach needs your freestyling ability to make some kind of assumption about the girl.
This is your basic opportunity to let her start talking... Or at least letting her offer some kind of conversational topic about herself that you can latch onto and build rapport/comfort with
My example, which is my "go to" when there's nothing else coming to my mind in the moment is:
"I don't speak any [Guess nationality]"
So in this daygame infield, you'll quickly hear me saying:
"I don't speak any French"
[At around 0:22 in the video]
This gave the girl the opportunity to correct me. Without saying where she was from, I was able to build her investment levels by making her give me a "hint" (Or an "evidence" as she so sexually put it) about her country.
Doing this pops her out of the normal *surface bubble* of normal chit-chat conversation... Suddenly she actually has to put some thought into the conversation.
This is the type of investment that starts creating a bond between you and a girl. [Heard at 0:52]
Once we know where a girl is from, we want to start introducing favourable frames about her.
Generally, if you are cold-approaching with the intent of finding fast sex... You will be looking for easy-going, hippie, heavy partying type girls.
At 1:40 you will hear how I start trying to push these frames onto the girl to see how she reacts.
This is another important step in qualification. By doing this I'm starting to gauge what *type* of girl she is. And from there onwards, what type of "game" I should be displaying.
Old school seduction advice is "Push-Pull"
Essentially it means "with every compliment, make sure you are also teasing the girl"
Make believe she is your sister for a second (Or step-sister, as Pornhub would have you believe...)
How would you play with and tease her then?
Well after I've finished saying she looks like a:
"Normal girl"
I then say:
"Except for these sunglasses"
Which lets her invest further by telling me a mini-story about how she got them. All good signs that she is at least initially attracted and interested in me
Time for a quick BONUS Point Tip:
If you really want to hammer home the man-woman frame of your seductive interaction, you can start telling the girl about your red-pill philosophies in life.
Definitely not a tip for the inexperienced daygame seducers among us...
But when you're confident enough to stand your ground and defend your thoughts and positions on certain topics, making a girl submit to strong "male-female" frames is a great position to build for yourself in a girl's eyes.
[I show you an example of this at 4:05 in the daygame infield video linked below]
Back to the basics of successful daygame approaching:
One super-basic mistake I see a LOT of my past students making, is trying to impress a girl with ALL the information you know about her country.
I see so many guys boring her with their history-textbook analysis of her nationality as soon as they recognise her accent.
Counter-intuitively, I like to leave this kind of information for the middle to end of a daygame approach. You'll see that it's taken me 6 minutes to start sharing some of my past stories and experiences in relation to Italy, with this Italian girl.
Not only that, don't talk too much...
You should be making playful teases and accusations about her country, then letting her "defend" her country. That puts the onus on her to continue investing in the conversation heavily.
Today's final tip is about taking a girl's number...
We don't want to come off needy, as though this whole 'conversation' was a ploy all along to get her number.
Ideally, you will make taking her number a totally *natural* thing.
Which it should be...
When two new people like each other and want to meet up again in the future, it's only natural to swap contact details.
What I like to do is reserve another minute or two of conversation for AFTER I've taken her phone number. This totally "grounds" the approach and makes it feel completely natural for the girl.
You can find the daygame infield I'm referencing through-out this short article here:
(r/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Oy9-NMHkk0)
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