Hello all, long time lurker. TLDR of my romantic story is I am now 27 years old and recently single after a nearly 8 year long relationship and therefore am rustyer then the Titanic at this point. I am in a new city with very few "friends" none of which are interested in the scene anymore since they are all married.

My big struggle is just opening the conversation, and never feels like a good time, or just plain inappropriate (banks or grocery stores). I feel like I either need to find a good wingman again... I'm not sure since the city I am in is very... Clique-y? People are very weary of newcomers because it's a vacation town and have no interest in investing time with people they don't know because they would probably just be gone within a week.

Are there any apps or forums for men/women who are legitimately looking for a wingman/women?(in my experience a wing women is best).