Went out last night with 4 friends to see if we could creep out any girls on Halloween.

At the bar and my friend is doing what he calls a 'warm up' set on a couple of old birds! After a few mins they eject/blow him out and sit down by themselves. My friends all go out to smoke but it's cold so I decide to stay inside and do my own attempt on the old girls. I open with ''Where's your Halloween costumes?'' (I wish coming up with an 'opener' that actually tends to lead towards a discussion was always as easy as it is at Halloween!)

They throw it back at me because i'm also in normal clothes, but I tease them and ignore that fact and tell them that they're boring and then start listing outfits that they should be wearing, and sexualise it a little by mentioning sexy 'undead' nurses in short skirts etc. I riff for a few seconds about how my friends are smoking so I thought i'd bug them for a while and within a few minutes they were asking my name and showing me lots of interest. My friends came back and told me we were moving too a different bar, and the girls said ''No! Don't take injesterust! We like him!''. I told the girls to come with us and they did.

In the next venue i'm flirting and dancing with the younger one (who is still like a decade older than me! I'm actually not interested in either) and then the older one comes over, pinches my ass, tells me she likes younger guys and basically puts it on a plate for me. I kind of carry on flirting, but i'm tryt to reject her gently and within a few minutes both girls are now talking to some other dudes who have taken them off my hands!

I open another girl on the dance floor. Much more my type! Canadian. 22. I open again with the same opener. It leads too a discussion. We do the names and ages thing. She seems SUPER friendly and talkative, but I know that this isn't necessarily an IOIm because American and Canadian girls are about 200 times friendlier with strangers than Brit girls typically (unless they think you're good looking)! It's going OK. I'm touching her when I get the opportunity and teasing her and stuff, but at some point I drop some sort of 'clanger' that completely ruins the interaction and she basically grabs her friend and walks away lol.

I go too a different bar. I open a girl sitting down. Same opener lol. She is very talkative which is fairly unusual for UK girls, so it's a pretty big IOI. Very soon she's talking about how she likes to be fucked and stuff. I wish I could remember how the conversation 'went there' so quickly. Not sure if it was something I 'done' and if it was just her. I was starring deep into her eyes on silences and stuff to increase the sexual tension. She was giving me that flirty look and getting super close to me at times and it was just super obvious that the kiss was 'on'. I went for it and We kissed. I was feeling her up and making out a fair bit. However, she was staying with a gay friend in a hotel and she didn't want me to go back there (neither did I , tbh! Not sure how I feel about banging someone whilst her gay best friend is watching!). I don't have my own place and after a while she gave me her number and disappeared.

Go inside to use the bathroom and on my way upstairs I opened a girl with the same opener and she just looked at me like a homeless person and sort of 'shooed' me away. That's more what i'm used too! A 'no girl' who I can tell from that initial reaction taht no matter what i'd have said (as my opener or after the opener) I'd have never have gotten her

Go back outside to the same seat where I was kisisng the girl and I notice another girl now sitting there. Probably opened her with the same outifit opener. Can't remember. She was sober/wasn't drinking and was sitting there whilst her 'slut' friend (her words, not mine!) was inside 'trying to find a handsome guy to bang her'. I spent the next 10 mins teasing her and talking nonsense and she really seemed to be enjoying herself. She also called me out on kissing the other girl. Turns out she saw that lol. So maybe I looked like a bit of a pervy quagmire. Still, It was going super well, laughing at my jokes, asking me what sort of girls I like, lots of presonal quetsions etc HOWEVER, there just wasn't that 'green flashing light' that was present with the girl that I kissed this time. Hard to describe. It was going well, but I just wasn't getting the same 'attraction IOI's' (KISS ME!!) that the other girl was giving me. I was thinking about how I can advance this, trying to remember all the tips from various PUA vids about how to escalate

First move was so ramp up the kino under using some sort of palm reading shit lol. I done it but I don't think that it really helped my cause. Her behaviour didn't change.

Next move was 'statements of intent'. Told her I thought she was kinda cute and said a few flirty things, but again, she didn't really reciprocate.

Only other move I could think of here was to just grab her and 'go for it' and try to kiss her! But my instincts told me that it would be a guaranteed painful rejection. (i'd also previous tried to 'test the waters' by kind of picking her up as she was sitting down, but she kind of pushed my hands away a little so I backed off, but that told me that going for a kiss was likely super low odds).

Was now a bit lost as to what to do and I knew that she'd be driving her friend back to where she lives soon (fairly far away) so I told her to give me her number which she did.

We text a little this morning and in one of them she said something like ''Wait, so you forgot our kiss?!!! I'm hearbroken''

I don't even remember kissing her but I was a little drunk! Maybe she's just being 'funny' and it's a joke lol. Or maybe I did kiss her. God knows. I don't think so?!!

Overall a fun night tbh, ALTHOUGH, i'm annoyed at 2 things.

1/not being able to escalate effectively and advance the interaction with the last girl. It was just so much easier with the other girl due to her body language and stuff. Not sure what else I could/should have done with the 2nd girl.

2/Even though i'm glad to have made some approaches, there were so many occasions where there were just stunning girls that I failed to open due to how hot they were. I can't open bitchy looking 8+'s! Always painful when you reject yourself tbh although it's so hard to do because I know that 98% of the time it's a hard 'no girl' who, no matter what I try, basically ignores me, and it does kill my ego/confidence, so I tent to float around hitting on the hot(ish) girls lol

EDIT:

Hmmm....it appears I actually did kiss her aswell. Bizarre. I honestly don't remember that at all!

Her: ''Omg you don’t remember our kids????? I’m heart broken.''

Her: I mean 'kiss', not 'kids'

Me: don't remember our kids OR our kiss. I'm not sure it happened. Not like me to do such a thing. Did you do it just to make your bouncer friend jealous?! haha

(some bouncer she knew was sniffing around her all night)

Her: No you kissed me, you where snogging some other bird right before me so you definitely kiss anyone lol. No I didn’t do it to make him jealous I done it because it’s what you wanted