Hey guys - need some advice here. I'm 18 yo. I've made out with 135 chicks and had gotten 0 lays till 2 weeks ago, when I banged a prostitute.

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While having gotten lots of make outs, mostly from being a white, slightly jacked Brazilian walking around shirtless at Carnaval (not trying to brag here, it is a huge advantadge), I've never had a girlfriend or any female affection whatsoever.

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Never hand held with a chick but have grabbed over 150 asses.

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My problem is this: I have a soft spot for initimacy in general. So when I meet a cute chick and I have some sort of intimacy, be it looking eachother sensually in the eyes, passionately kissing, then flirting and experiencing some sort of connection, I get attached. I will think of this chick in the back of my mind sometimes.

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That's no problem, after 3 years in the game it doesn't affect me in terms of the quality of what i'm spitting in the field. I'm over that.

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The issue is that for some reason my libido DISSAPEARS completely. I have no lust at all for random sluts. I think of that chick I met and our connection. Now for a period of maybe up to a month i'll be in "love" mode, where grinding on a sluts ass does nothing, when simply a lip kiss to the girl I had a connection would've driven me crazy.

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This SUCKS. It hurts my game ALOT. I've had periods where I endured up to 6 months of this shit. Because of a oneitis (cheated on her boyfriend of 5+ years with me) "dumping" me I basically dropped out of the game and stopped hitting on sluts. Yesterday I was grinding on an objectively very hot chick but I felt nothing. She was smiling at me and I was just going through the motions with a poker face, just running my tested algorithms (ok, she's frontal to me, now twirl her and put her hand on your neck like you saw on that youtube vid, alright, now one hand on ass one on shoulder, ok). I would've loved to bang her 3 weeks ago before I met this chick I connected with but who ended up flaking on me.

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So...what do?