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[–]HuntingTeckel 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fortunately for me, I don't really have to escalate things. The woman generally does that for me. Maybe I kind of initiate it by sitting close and having no issue touching them in nonsexual ways. What I would do if I were you is invite the girl over for a movie or something. If she's obviously interested and she's sitting too far away tell her that. Usually that's an invite to cuddle even though you didn't actually say those words. Putting your arm around her is also an invitation for her to lean on you. The best part about that is that you don't actually have to touch her. Put your arm behind her on the sofa or something. If you're afraid to start the touching there is plenty you can do to invite her to start it. Face towards her, arms away from your body, place one on a table or arm rest and one on the backrest. You just need to signal you're open and usually they do it for you. I don't think I've ever actually initiated touching with a new woman and honestly I'm really uncomfortable starting it. That's why I just show them physically that I'm open to it and if they're interested they usually do it themselves.
[–]temerity18 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To most women touching is no big deal. And they love to be touched by a guy they are attracted to. But if you have severe anxiety you might consider asking for medication to combat this. To jumpstart your habit of touching them ladies. After a few successes you can drop the meds.
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