I need some encouragement.. or a kick in the head.

2019-01-07T04:34:57+00:00

There's a good rsdtyler video on this. I can't remember the name of the upload, but the gyst is: "what you can't fix, you feature".

Search"rsd insecurities" on YouTube. Those should give you the kick you need.

Willamasaurus · 2019-01-07T10:18:44+00:00

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Willamasaurus · 2019-01-07T12:01:22+00:00

Stop worrying, just stop. It's only gonna make your hair fall out faster. In fact just shave the whole thing off it bothers you that much. Go Bruce Willis style.

Work out. Talk to girls. Stop whining and waiting for motivation. Motivate yourself by taking action. You'll feel good after doing good things for yourself. You'll never feel good beforehand so stop waiting for the perfect mood and act now.

Girls like Confidence. Girls like confidence. Girls like confidence. Girls like confidence. Read that again. Girls like confidence.

Your bald head does not matter at all. At all. Be confident. Talk to girls over and over and your confidence will grow.

Every time you worry about your bald head punch yourself in the balls for being a little wimp.

Keisharr · 2019-01-07T05:46:54+00:00

This wont be a popular opinion

Looks> Money>Status and then personality

Why is this the case?

People like different personalities, mostly if you're fun to be around, and your "play circuits" in your brain have been kept up to date with your age, so u can engage in fun activities without feeling either stupid or anxious, then your personality is developed enough to were u should focus on ur looks and ur carrier.

Status luckily, can be changed with no influence from looks or money, it ties in quite closely to personality.
Now luckily there is one type of personality that is dead-set appealing to females, Alpha

How to be alpha..
Confidence is the ability to look certain when handling uncertainty

Its mostly how u hold yourself, Speaking slower, lets everyone know what ur saying is important, it also deepens your voice and allows you to extenuate masculine body movements.

Speak in a Direct Manner, not indirect- this is very important
it means u have to be comfortable with the possibility of OFFENDING people.

"Ill take the Chicken Alfredo"

"Can i please have the chicken Alfredo, thank you"
The take is a command, the other one is polite, which may also indicate fear of repercussions if non-polite, comes off as a little beggy.

Its going to feel weird at first, but speak like a Warrior.

Alpha also uses their eyes to convey dominance or pressure.
Uses eye contact to show dominance to beta males, lets them know they're intruding their territory.

Humans are far more primal than people would like to let off, especially when trying to get "primal urges" met, u must play by the rules of nature and use them to your advantage.

Seductive Eye contact-

1 second, looking down towards the legs, then immediately back up to the eyes.

alpha- rude but honest

nice guy- naturally dishonest to avoid conflict. secretive, manipulative, passive aggressive.

Alpha strong sense of self, integrity- makes sure his needs are met above anyone else, then u can cater towards others.-expressing feelings in a clear and direct way. sets boundaries, never afraid of conflict.

As for your hair, obviously that sucks, hair Wax can make ur hair appear thicker, so can cutting it to a traditional short hairstyle, at most ur hair will just look shorter, not thinner. You stated ull work out, thats great, focus on Testosterone building foods, make sure ur getting ur Saturated Fats, mono-unsaturated fats too, have plenty of zinc to increase the conversion from HDL/LDL to testosterone. Use Compound exercsizes (exercsizing multiple muscle groups) Focus on Heavy weights, deadlift, leg presses, they are great for the testosterone boost. The Most attractive BMI for a male, there have been studies on this is 24-25, slightly on the heavier side, but males want to convey strength not agility.

now another thing for ur personlity, would be to develop your "Play Circuit" This is very important, and i dont mean video games, i mean Spontenous Playful, in the moment games that the rules arent exactly clear, phsyical pain is indeed usually an element in this, even with ur wife or girlfriend, say teaching them a game were if they lose, theres pain or if they win u get pain, like clapping their fists together only to learn they need to open thier hands... another one would be were its testing ur reactions, but obviously when u get good enough at it, u can invent even more complex games on the fly. This makes people excited, spikes cortisol (stress hormone) aswell as dopamine, their encounters with you will feel more meaningful.

Title	I need some encouragement.. or a kick in the head.
Author	Willamasaurus
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	January 7, 2019 3:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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