Told the girl I like how I feel but didn't go so well. Best course of action now?

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-23T01:36:15+00:00

If the balls in her cpurt then let her make the next move. You don't want to come across as pushy

2019-01-23T01:36:02+00:00

Don't send her a message. Let the dust settle and see where the dice falls. If she's interested she will let you know.

2019-01-23T02:37:13+00:00

Look, I'm a noob at this stuff myself, but after absorbing a lot of theory from here lately... a few things come to mind. First, if she didn't blatantly reject you then you haven't lost yet, if she's still talking to you then you can recover. But by telling her you like her, you probably have given away some of your leverage (or a lot). If you haven't done a lot to build sexual tension and/or make her feel like she wants your validation, It's not exciting for her if she knows you just like her. You need her to know (but probably not by telling her directly) that you have requirements that a girl has to meet to be with you. So I would say actually try to back out a little from how committed to her you are. Don't go deeper into telling her how much you like her for now, try to bring the conversation back to a place that you're less invested in her. But like, don't directly say something along those lines, just don't throw out more free affection and instead ask her more questions and tease her more. Not sure if it will be easy to get her on a date now... sounds like you'll have to text game yourself out of this until it starts to sound like things have flipped around and she's the one looking for validation from you.

Title	Told the girl I like how I feel but didn't go so well. Best course of action now?
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Upvotes	2
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Date	January 23, 2019 1:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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