She has dressed sexy and appealing for herself and possibly others.

I am showing my interest in her physicality so she can then let me know if she is looking, if I've got a chance physically, and to open it up to get to know each other.

Simple as that.

If she rudely rejects me – its her issue – bad timing, shes a cunt, shes in a bad mood, I remind her of somebody, or I'm just not her physical type.

It doesn’t mean necessarily there's something wrong with me or my approach or anything – it also doesn’t mean I'm going to get killed, shot, stabbed, attacked. It also doesn’t mean there's no women for me. This is called 'catastrophic thinking' and it’s a fail-safe mechanism in our brains that’s over stretched. It gets looser with experience.

Take ownership of your desires and your 'today' - your desires and feelings are primal. Go do something about them. Go say hello.