I've been working on myself for a while now and for the first time girls are actually interested in me. So it's kinda new to me and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't really get past the first two dates yet.

But man, feelings are weird. The past month I've been into and stressing about 5 girls.. the moment I meet someone new I forget about the setback I had from the past one. So here's an argument for abundance mentality am I right?

And also, the moment I get attention from girls I'm less interested and I'm thinking to myself: do I actually like her? And the moment she's not giving me attention I'm thinking to myself: wait, does she not like me?? And just stop thinking about if I actually like her.

This really shows you can't get better by reading alone about things like abundance mentality. I've read about it, know I shouldn't make a big deal of girls. But the moment I meet a pretty girl I forget about it and realize it's true afterwards.

Just wanted to share this experience. If you have any tips for me or feel the same, let me know!