Went out to a bar with some friends, chilled for a while had some fun with them until I started to scan the bar in order to approach someone.
First girl I approached was nice, I recognized her from high school and so did she, had small talk and some flirting which led to her saying she has a bf. next.
Approached this blonde girl sitting on the bar, she was eye fucking me the whole time, yet when I approached and said "Hi, what's your name?" she had that snobby vibe/look and straight away gave me the BF excuse. next.
Last girl was dancing with her friends, as I was passing by I stopped and introduced myself, she didn't respond.
I think my approach is fine, I show intent and being playful the whole interaction, last time I went out I closed 3 girls which I am still in contact with, but yesterday I just picked the wrong girls I guess?
The thing is, I don't overthink when I want to approach, if I see a girl I am attracted to I go in without thinking, yet my friend is always the one that waits for the "safer" one to open, and had better results last night. Thoughts on this?
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