last few weeks i've been going out with a good female friend of mine. almost everytime we both made out with someone and got numbers. she is kind of insecure about when to write and stuff like that. i am giving her the advice i learn here. now there is one thing i can't really understand.

The Goal is to game high value girls. since we are high value boys it's alright. but how does one high value girl act. normally a high value girl has many men she can chose from. so do we with our abundance mentality. we don't want to invest more than she is investing. What if she does the same thing? How do we come close to each other if no one is making steps towards each other?

is this whole game just a battle between an alpha boy and an alpha girl? someone in this equation has to be the beta. someone has to be submissive. as soon as someone is beeing the beta. why do you still want that person who has lesser value than you?