Why women give bad dating advice to men (written portion included)

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2019-03-28T02:32:46+00:00

Main Points: Not all women give bad dating and pick up advice to men but most do. The truth is most people give bad information to others about dating, but most guys assume that a girl, especially a hot girl, will give good advice thanks to her gender. Unfortunately this is not true. You should always vet someone's advice before blindly following it. Here are the times in the video and the main points from them:

1:10 Women do not understand your experience

- If you want to learn to fish, ask a fisherman not a fish

- No matter how many psych books a woman has read she will never be able to fully comprehend your perspective, don't let her trivialize it

2:42 She assumes all women are like her

- The classic "I'm a girl so I know women" argument, no you don't women are different

3:20 They don't speak about desire or attraction

- 95% of the advice you hear from women is things they wish a guy who they already want to fuck would do

- If you ask them how to be the guy they want to fuck, well you just proved you're not one of those guys. Women do not want to have to tell you

4:24 Women can be too nice

- A lot of women, and people, do not want to hurt your feelings. Its a kind gesture in the short term but a cruel one for the long term.

- People are selfish, they want you to like them rather than have you learn

5:45 What they say they want is not what they do

- Many women will say they want a kind, respectful, loyal man. And they will then go and bang the football jock who disrespects left and right.

- Follow her actions not her words

6:36 Mainstream media falls into this trap

- For the same reasons that women give bad advice is the same reason the media does.

- Be careful what information you accept to be true

7:41 Vet information before you believe it

- Always gauge feedback. Judge the motivations of the person giving it and whether they understand you story because 90% of the time, they don't.

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2019-03-28T09:25:08+00:00

Didn’t watch the whole video but read the summary. Good points. You look too thin though bro and like a hippy, you need to pump some iron and get a haircut.

Title	Why women give bad dating advice to men (written portion included)
Author	GET_IN_THE_VAN
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	March 28, 2019 2:25 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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