This happened to me yesterday, she asked me to take to my place but where did I go wrong?

2019-04-15T14:34:49+00:00

I dont think you did something wrong. I think she was scared of how spontanous she was and got second thoughts about how fast it went. But her first spontanous reaction was to go with you, and that is good. That was her emotion talking, then came rational thought and she changed. Just grab a drink another day.

eagerlearner732 · 2019-04-15T15:39:04+00:00

you could text with something like:

I'm going to be at X place at Y date/time, maybe i'll see you there.

Then you go have a pint of water or two ;) and chat up other women until she shows or doesnt.

I've played it once or twice by saying I want to meet in a public place in case she tries to take advantage of me.

Something like: (its a bit contrived as i had more preamble in my texts):

Hey how about we grab a drink at ????, it's nice and public in case you try to take advantage of me.

eagerlearner732 · 2019-04-15T22:37:34+00:00

Here’s the update guys, I called her and Me : how are you and how’s the new office.?

Her: it’s good and she asked me back same how’s the office. (Here, I heard her voice is shaky like when you’re interested in a person. I think she’s happy I called)

Me: it’s ok and tell me what you’re doing right now?

Her: I’m with friends at home having dinner.

Me: Already? I think you love cooking, do you?

Her: No! I Hate cooking. (Voice still shaky) I think she’s not sure what to speak and keep this conversation going on)

Me: I smiled and did you say you HATE cooking?

Her: yeah

Me: what do you LOVE then?

Her: I love reading books (I hear she’s chewing food)

Me: Books really? Interesting! What else do you love?

Her: I like playing Music. (She’s smiling, she’s happy)

Me: Ok “her name” here’s what we’re going to do. I’m busy right now and I’m going to call you back and we are meeting.

Her: Yeah ok ok thank you thank you.

Me: Alright bye. Enjoy your food.

What do you guys think? I did alright or what better I could have done? 😉😀

Title	This happened to me yesterday, she asked me to take to my place but where did I go wrong?
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Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	April 15, 2019 2:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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