Background: girls are attracted to men for a variety of reasons i will not get too in depth with here since that is its own topic. to summarize, these reasons can often boil down to looks, money and status.

if you have one of these enough, or better yet all 3, girls will be attracted to you and it may or may not even matter what you say. now, if you are an average looking guy like me who wants to hook up with insanely hot girls, that does not mean that all is lost. you just have to learn the great equalizer that is "game". and a big part of game is flirting.

if a girl is not attracted to you simply for your looks, money or status, she can quickly lose sexual interest if you don't know how to create and maintain that sexual tension. that is how so many guys go out on multiple dates with girls and don't sleep with them and/or get friendzoned.

but if you understand how to create sexual tension, you will have a chance with any given girl. and make no mistake about it...girls will flirt with anyone, even ugly people...especially if they know how to flirt. flirting is like the secret girl language that they love-it's fun and gives them an ego boost as well as plausible deniability. side note: kinda funny how much girls love flirting as they generally aren't very good at it...mostly because girls generally aren't very funny (they don't need to be, especially if they are good looking).

the key to flirting is to insert sexuality, whether thru "misinterpretations" or "implications" (cue it's always sunny jokes..no not that implication!). you don't have to pounce on every single opportunity to insert sexuality, but you can't miss them all either. even a simple well timed "that's what she said" will suffice (misinterpretation).

now, don't get me wrong, just normally talking and getting to know each other is EXTREMELY important, and you can go several minutes without the insertion of sexuality...but you can't go the ENTIRE conversation without sexuality if you want to be able to create and maintain sexual chemistry.

so, here's an example based off the transcript of a date i had the other night:

*meet up, normal greeting*
*shortly after entering the bar*
me: wow it's really hot in here
girl: yeah...and this seems THICK
*she touches my nice moleskin jacket*
me: are you feeling me up already...it's way too early in the night for that
her: haha
me: although i am glad you appreciate my thickness
her: lol
me: it's fine, i can always take it off
girl: you're undressing for me already!
*normal conversation, we order our drinks, talk and get to know each other better for 15+ minutes*
girl: i love trying all different types of food
me: oh, so food is the way to your heart?
girl: yep
me: i'll have to make a mental note
girl: haha
me: just so you know, i don't have a heart, so there is no way to it
girl: oh, that's fine, im not trying to get there anyway
me: oh, so you're just using me for my body
*break back into normal conversation, rinse and repeat*

notice the techniques i use:
"misinterpreting" her touching my jacket for feeling me up, "misinterpreting" her "thick" comment as referring to me and not my jacket. i even get her to play along this way, making the "undressing" comment since she's buying into the flirting game

"implication" of using food as a way to get to her heart

and then i use both and "misinterpret" her "not trying to get to my heart" as an "implication" that she just wants me for my body instead....what an advanced technique!

and once again, i'll repeat, don't forget to actually get to know the girl and have a good time with her!

Hope that this has been helpful