[25 Male]My high school friend who rejected me in high school matched me and now asked me out. Should I reject for pride?

2019-05-02T01:09:11+00:00

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affluenter · 2019-05-02T01:55:17+00:00

Just smash and dash

TrueLeoSnake · 2019-05-02T02:18:00+00:00

If you are asking that question then you must no longer find her as attractive as you did while younger.

cameheretorepost · 2019-05-02T01:54:10+00:00

Imagine that like a reward unlocked because you leveled up. If you feel like shes shallow just foking dump her like you owe her. Going on a dste doesnt mean relatiomship, you still get to decide

recyclablebanthas · 2019-05-02T04:22:08+00:00

1

Haven’t spoken/seen her in 7 years.

That's a long time. Long enough that you're both different people. Or should be.

2

Or is it manly/does it still show respect to myself to tell her no

Do you find her attractive? Are you curious about what she's like?

Then pretending you're not interested, or turning her down out of spite or because of pride, is just shooting yourself in the foot....... why?

To prove a point? To get back at 18 year old immature her?

3

I will wonder if she never liked me for me back then, and Is just into me because now I’m super in shape, financially successful with a great job

What the hell does this even mean?

She rejected you back when you were less mature. Now you haven't said a thing about how that went down, but if you acted cringe-y in any way, then THAT'S probably why it didn't work out.

And how does your job even factor in? Are you advertising that on whatever app you are on that you matched with her on? If so, you shouldn't be.

4

Would you guys do it out with her because you felt like you owed your younger self the date? Or out of new interest for her?

Doing it "for your younger self," is a recipe for disaster. You can't make up for the damn past and trying to, will fuck you over and take away the present as well.

Do it now, if you want it now.

Title	[25 Male]My high school friend who rejected me in high school matched me and now asked me out. Should I reject for pride?
Author	idkman93
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 2, 2019 12:45 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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