i've always thought myself to be a friendly but shy dude, that image has been confirmed as i read threads on this site, and the more my mistakes are apparent to me, for example:

-i'm not assertive enough

-i lack confidence

-i'm very conscious about my body/actions

-i always get rejected

-always end up friend-zoned by a girl i like

-i give it up way too easily

-i give my attention too easily, and reply too fast and all around look clingy