TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Just wanna say fuck you!

Mylife4Auir01

June 6, 2019

1 upvotes

/r/seduction

Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

PDF TXT EPUB

Post Information

Title	Just wanna say fuck you!
Author	Mylife4Auir01
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	June 6, 2019 12:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bxadeg/just_wanna_say_fuck_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/just-wanna-say-fuck-you.1470703 https://theredarchive.com/post/1470703

Comments

[–]TaeKwonPiccolo 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mylife4Auir01[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mylife4Auir01[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]JxRomeo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

....approach anxiety, why do you even exist?

.....I know I am just a newbie who knows nothing but once I figure you out you will disappear for good and trust me you will

This sort of motivation is good..... and the framing is perhaps more helpful than it might seem to others.

We are complex as people and often different parts of ourselves have a "voice." A term used for this in the psychological field is self-schema.

And what you're doing now, by defining it as something that's almost alien or separate from you, can help focus your battle to rewire your own brain. It is possible.

Some possibly helpful thoughts to consider as you walk this journey:

Social anxiety may never completely disappear. Even after becoming confident enough that others around you would characterize you as confident, there could very well be a small percentage of time that you feel anxiety or not completely confident in every situation. This is perhaps normal and nothing to beat yourself up over.
That being said, it is more than possible to vastly change your life by simply reframing how you view social interactions.
Anxiety tells you that you must say or do "the right thing" in social interactions. But realizing that there is no such thing, can be liberating.
Furthermore, while anxiety drives you into your head to plan the "right thing," this is WILDLY at odds with the two way nature of social interactions.
- Social interactions involve someone transmitting and someone receiving. If anxiety has us in our heads focused on what to transmit, we are effectively turning off our receiver while we interact with ourselves. Which is ironically very self-defeating.
- The remedy is to push one's awareness outside of oneself. Actively listen more. Focus on information gathering and better follow-up, rather than that impossibly perfect thing to say.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter