Hey guys! I’m 22 years old who’s been out of a relationship for nearly 4 years. When I tell you that a girl could approach me and tell me to take my clothes off I’d find some way to mess that up as well. You could probably imagine that I’m 22, still a Virgin and an origin of Self-Esteem issues from Middle/High school. Fast forward to my first year of college and getting rejected, I never had much luck there either.

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I left college to start a couple of Profitable Businesses which took off pretty well, but also with that never had a chance to have a Real College experience.

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No Social Experience as my Businesses is run from Home.

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I go to my local upscale-mall a lot because I love how the atmosphere feels comfortable to me, and also that the people there look there best to impress others. Best part? Everyone is sober.

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(Before I go on I’d like to say that when I am talking about myself it’s not in a flaunting manner but rather I’m just unsure on what girls like so if you think a couple of the following features could be used as an advantage and somehow subtly could be acknowledged by a girl of interest please do let me know.)

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As a 22-year-old, I’d like to think I’m successful and capable. I have a closet dedicated to finer fashions (Louis Vuitton, Gucci, etc.) I drive an exotic and enjoy wining and dining.

My hygiene is on point and typically take care of how I look. I am motivated and energetic. I feel like I am definitely capable of getting the girls I want as they all stare in awe whenever I come to the mall but it’s like my anxiety takes over whenever I want to approach and say Hi.

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I am taking a vacation to Miami and decided I’m going to go to the mall there and try Day Game for the first time. My mind copes well with it as I remind myself they’ll never see me again anyway some leaving with rejection won’t be a big deal.

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However, I don’t want to become dependent on traveling outside of state just to talk to girls.

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What My Mind Says:

“You’re only in Florida for 2 days (Wednesday-Friday) not like you’ll get anywhere with a girl that quick you’re no Casanova dude.”

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On the other hand, I say:

“What do you got to lose?”

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It’s this constant back and forth with my mind and heart that fucks me up I hate it. Why can’t I just see the best looking girl and try to get with her?

I have been to the bar, but I feel like I don't enjoy my experience there because nobody is really sober and it just doesn't resonate well with me, I love having engaging/honest conversations over dinner or getting to know someone in a sober state away from the whole clubbing scene.

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Has anyone else battled with this, if so how have you overcome it? I know it helps to be social but because I’ve been anti-social for so long and run work from home I feel like I could never meet new people.

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It’s hard to meet friends/girlfriends when you work off your computer. Sigh.

Hope to hear your experiences and advice guys! Love you all and thank you so much!

PS: Not sure if anyone is interested but if you do want to know how my Day Game in Miami goes let me know! Who knows it might be a motivator for me to actually embarrass myself for a change!