Girl showed interest but I don't know what to do

blagaa · 2019-06-24T05:17:15+00:00

She’s interested which is the first and hardest part. It sounds like you are interested so I say go for it.

You may not have the ideal earning power for what you envisioned, but you don’t have to take her out to fancy dinners. Try and do the best with what you have, be resourceful and remember you have nothing to be ashamed of - she’s in the same line of work so she is in the same boat. Money doesn’t make you. Show you can make good decisions that are congruent with your values and that will go a long way.

geo1320 · 2019-06-24T10:04:08+00:00

Fix yourself. Your insecure. Become comfortable with who you are. You place high expectations on yourself. A lot of what if thinking. She's done the hard part. Show up, this is who I am. It either works or it doesn't. Her showing this much interest I think it will work out. As far as money goes a descent women will understand how tight money can be. Your biggest asset to her will be your ability to openly communicate with her not money.

2019-06-24T06:03:17+00:00

It sounds like you’re interested but you’re more afraid then anything. You could just be letting your insecurities get in the way. Just know everyone, including that girl has insecurities. About being physically inhibited. If a girl really likes you she will make the first move, unless she is super shy. This girl straight up asked you for your number which shows she made the first move. So physically she will most likely make the first move. It’s okay to be nervous and scared with women. If she is a nice girl she will understand and work with you through it. You could also be straight up and let her know you’re used to be alone and this is all new to you. That you want to take things slow. If that’s what you want? If she is texting you first thing in the morning and constantly through out the day then she really likes you. I know it’s scary for you but you should try to take it as a compliment. Unless you’re just totally freaked the hell out and want her to leave you alone. If that’s the case then just don’t message back or tell her you’re busy. It’s not like you guys have a past... Personally I think you should go with the flow with this girl. Just to get some growth out of it and learn some new things. You could really end up liking her. Don’t just stay in your comfort zone. You’ll have too many regrets later on. About the money issue, don’t sweat that at all! A good girl could care less about money and you taking her out on dates and spending money. All they want is you and your time. There’s plenty of free things you can do together. Picnic, park, go to a lake, swim, hike, library, watch a movie or show together at your place or hers. If that’s too intimate and scary for you, try something else that you like doing first that’s a comfortable setting for you. Also, have her pay for her half and you pay for your half. Once in a while pay for her when you go places so she doesn’t think your a total cheap ass lol. She should also do the same for you so it’s fifty/fifty. I know it seems so complicated, the whole dating thing but it’s actually easier once you get the hang of it and let go. Flow...

Title	Girl showed interest but I don't know what to do
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Upvotes	1
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Date	June 24, 2019 4:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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