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Ghosted after a date

bosleyhh · 2019-06-24T17:55:22+00:00

I went out with a girl in my university class F23 , we texted a few times after going out , but she ghosted my last text. I'm seeing her again tomorrow...

bosleyhh

June 24, 2019

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Title	Ghosted after a date
Author	bosleyhh
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 24, 2019 5:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c4selw/ghosted_after_a_date/
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[–]henry-bacon 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]superrio6 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]bosleyhh 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]superrio6 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

ok, if she said let's hangout next week during the date, thing probably went well. Although this is no way to know why she ghosted you, it could be an ex coming back to her, or something you did that turned her off without realizing it, or she is simply just playing games with you to mess with your head(that would be the worst because you dont want to date a woman like that, relationship becomes toxic)

Since you will see her in class again, DO NOT ask her out, just be cool and normal and have regular conversation with her, dont be aloof(will make her think you are not interested) or all over her (she will sense that you are clingy and get turned off) . The best thing you should do right now is NOTHING, do not text her or ask her out again, by doing this you are giving her the space to come to you, so she knows that you are not needy like 95% of the guys out there, if she is genuinely into you, she will make things easy for you by dropping you hints that she wants to hangout again or she will simply ask you to hangout(since you guys hangout already). If she does not do any of the above and give you cold shoulder when you see her in class, do the same, chasing her more will just turn her off dude( been there done that, learn my shit the hard way). There are plenty of fish in the sea.

[–]superrio6 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]bosleyhh2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link